Hey YouTube – Dads might find it useful, too

One thing that has remained consistent in the 6 years I have been writing this blog is that society still views us Dads as secondary parents. Case in point, the new YouTube channel aimed at parents (or so their blog post says it is). Great idea to aggregate the best parenting videos on YouTube into a single collection. Very useful for parents. So, then why call the channel “For Moms”? Why not call the channel “For Parents”?

I know, it seems like such a little thing, but again and again these types of semantics are important as they reflect the underlying belief that Moms are the only ones in the family that might be interested in information about parenting. In other words, Dads don’t care.

ARGGGGHHHHHHH.

Look, YouTube, I know it’s not intentional to shut out Dads like this. You might not have even thought about the title in these terms since it is just an accepted norm in our society that Moms are the go to person in the family when it comes to parenting. But I find it hard to believe that not a single person sitting around the table at YouTube talking about this channel did not see the title as being exclusionary to Dads? I mean, YouTube must have at least one Dad on their staff working on this stuff who might have stood up and said, “hey, wait a sec – why not me?”

And while I am ranting, why do you need to refer to your new parenting channel as a “survival guide”. Yeah, parenting is hard work and I realize you are trying to be fun and playful, but to equate parenting with being in “survival” mode? C’mon, surely we can do better as parents than simply hunker down into “survival mode” for 20 odd (and yes, at times it is really odd) years.

Sigh. The battle continues….


3 responses to “Hey YouTube – Dads might find it useful, too

  1. I agree that the mom bias here is pretty upsetting. But there was already a dad channel on YouTube. It's called DadLabs. Almost 500 episodes all on being a dad. Some instructional, some issue oriented, some just comedy.[youtube Fpu3uQ_SbbE http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fpu3uQ_SbbE youtube]

  2. Clay, you guys are a truly a Daddy oasis. Thanks for doing what you do.

  3. I try to fight stuff like that when I see it, but this channel does seem to be by and for mothers. Unless you want to learn to remove eyebrow hair.
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